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Gentlemen's Guide

Gentlemen's Guide


We understand lingerie shopping for the lady in your life can be daunting, but don’t panic, we are here to help you find that perfect gift. Forget the high street, our online lingerie boutique is a stress-free shopping experience and one which we think you may enjoy!!

At Bedtime Flirt we are dedicated to helping you purchase the perfect lingerie for your loved one so we have put together this handy guide to help you lift your lingerie game.



Before we go any further, firstly do you know her size? If not, here’s what you should do:

Sneak into her lingerie drawer, go straight to the source and look at a few labels. Sizes vary by brand so we suggest looking at several to most accurately size her up. What you are looking for:

Bra – It has two measurements. A number (eg 34) and a letter (eg B). The number is her chest size (circumference) and the letter is her cup size. You must match both!

Chemise, body, camisole and teddy – These are usually sized in normal dress sizes (eg 10, 12, 14). Anything like a dress, jumper or top will reveal the right size for these garments. Knickers, suspenders, briefs and thongs – again sized in normal dress sizes (eg 10, 12, 14).

Still unsure of size ? Opt for an adjustable or elasticated one size garment that will allow for an additional margin of error.



Lingerie comes down to personal taste. It all depends on the occasion, relationship and preference. Many men think skimpy lingerie is sexier, while others like the gorgeous feel of silk lingerie. We suggest taking the time to consider your ladies style and preferences. Does she prefer an underwired bra or bralette. a thong or brief? Is she inclined to hide or show off a particular body feature? Does she stick to classic black or prefer bright colours?  Think about what she usually wears and fantasise  about what might bring out another side. The beauty of sexy lingerie is its ability to transform but try to find a middle ground between the sexy lingerie you want to see her in and the lingerie that will make her feel confident and special and that ultimately she will want to wear.


You can really keep relationships fresh through lingerie. Like bringing home flowers, going out to dinner and making love on the kitchen floor, lingerie adds spice and keeps things hot. While any gift is thoughtful, nothing says sexy like lingerie. Every woman wants to feel desirable and the best news is, lingerie is a gift that if you get it right you will enjoy too.

Unless you are 100% sure the lady in your life has a naughty side and likes playing dress up then err on the side of caution and look for sophisticated luxury not cheap fun. Opt for beautiful lace, sensual silk satins, rich colours and intricate detailing. Women tend to buy practical lingerie for themselves so choose something that will look glamorous and gorgeous. If you make her feel extra special then who knows maybe she will return the favour!



We know Valentine’s Day, Christmas, Birthdays and Anniversaries are perfect occasions to show your sensitivity and imagination through the gift of lingerie. But remember guys every day is a good day to turn up the heat in a relationship by giving lingerie to someone you care about.

For the total package, let us gift box your purchases. Your thoughtful gifts come delivered  beautifully packaged in tissue paper in a luxury black box with satin ribbon , a tempting wrapping that, like sexy lingerie, is designed to lead to the present within. We will hand write your personal message on a gift card if you complete this option in checkout.

We respect customer privacy at all times and offer a discreet service Our outer packaging for all orders is unbranded and plain so you won’t spoil the surprise.



Feel free to contact us with any questions you might have. We are on hand to make your online purchases as enjoyable and effortless as possible. We offer a personal shopping service so if you can’t see what you are looking for on our website we will be more than happy to assist you in sourcing the perfect present.

Our wishlist option is a great way for your partner to give you some hints about what she might like and a fun way to send flirty messages to build anticipation. Just click the heart icon on a product to add to your wishlist.

Finally don’t panic if you do get it wrong we offer a 14 day no quibble returns policy which we extend at Christmas and Valentines.